pure misery in candy colored blasts [now with new improved failures in self-politisisation] !

or rather in the tiny, tiny imperceptible.

notes from the underground, i wish: I’m supposed to be learning the cure for cancer for my biology exam tomorrow. But I suppose I must get something down before I do that. btw, I know you probably know, but did you know some Japanese dude made it so now we don’t really need embryo’s for stem cell research and with just the addition of four genes, we can now make embryonic-like stem cells out of skin cells which is good ‘cus they’re undifferentiated and can grow up to be disease free cells that replace the bad things in one’s body. NYT’s soft news coverage.

Various Sevedox: Revelations is Sevedox’s favorite chapter. Being in school makes you discover facets of people you’d never even know was a facet to have. “I like Ecclesiastes too,” he says.

Week in review: it’s never over, and thinking is hard.

P.s. I’m writing more these days because I have a really long study break. FYI.

Cameltoe as coping mechanism: Thursday is the last day of school for me every week. I get up every day at ungodly hours. Today for example I got up at 7 am. My state was atrocious; eyes bugging out, back curled in the remainder of a fetal position, me falling over while putting on my strangely skin tight stretchpants that prompted my roommate to go “Buns!” when he first saw me. (It’s a sociological experiment; how does it feel to wear bordering-on-cameltoe, 60$ stretch pants – one feels self-conscious, yet protected by the stealthlike leanness. I bought them at Barneys in a fashion emergency and they’re actually worth the money. Moreover, they make my legs look better. I walk around and it’s like god is routinely scooping me up in a velvet fist and throwing me about. Cool feeling.)

Morning coffee is not so easy: I go to the grocery store where the Indian dude already knows me and gives me a two dollar discount on my “large coffee with two shots of espresso please.” The first time I asked him for double espresso, he glared at me, took forever, and charged me 3.50$ for it, ignoring me as I grumbled in shock about it. Now he gaily greets me as I tell him “I need to be awake today. I have a test” or some other academic emergency. “I understand” he says and quickly gives my coffee order to the coffee bloke, in the knowing, businesslike sense of “I know no one has ever conceived of double shot espresso large coffees in this here World Famous Deli, but it’s happening, she’s a regular, deal. How many sugar, milk?” He always asks. I don’t have the heart to make him reach for Equal. “Two sugars and cream, please.”  I take that moment to contemplate whether I will be more satisfied by the Chocolate Crunch Rice Krispie treats or Caramel Crunch Rice Krispie Treats.  Today I got a banana instead of Rice Krispies, because I’m a better person. Or more like the not sleeping till four, total maximum caffeine at 7, has removed my appetite.

This is how I do: My schedule for this week has been as follows (this is my blog, I get to detail worthless things): Sunday night in bed with my Art History book that’s bigger than anyone’s head. Study Ancient Greek, Byzantine, Hi-Gothic. Scribble things on index cards. Want to cry because I know I have Early Italian Renaissance and Hi-Renaissance ahead of me and there is no respite till Tuesday night by which time I’ll just want to crash instead of celebrating and getting drunk like I used to when completing a test was the equivalent of saving babies, when I didn’t have a quiz every week that I have complete herculean tasks for, which means it doesn’t end, there’s no reason to celebrate, this constant state of stress is just…normal.

Red, red, red: Monday I go to class late even though I’m coming from the Upper West Side which is only 15 minutes away from my school. I run into the teach, who’s also late, and wearing three shades of red. One of the reds is sparkly, and one is a pair of red velour running shoes. “I like the color combo” I say, because I know she’s making a statement and it needs to be affirmed. “I didn’t know if it worked” she says cutely. “Sure it does” I say breezily, as if I know.

Because life is stupid, Starbucks: On break I order a Starbucks Light Frappucino thinking it’ll solve the breakfast ish, and the dude gets made because I try to take some other girl’s Frapp and he says snottily “That’s a Light, miss” and I say “I did order a Light” and he doesn’t listen because he’s mad I tried to take the other. Finally, he hands me a Venti Regular which looks like it will kill me. I ask “Is this a Light?” And he says “Light doesn’t have whipped cream, miss and it has 1/3 less calories.” as if I’m dumb. “Oh. Is the lack of whipped cream the only distinguishing feature? In which case I don’t care if I have a regular.” He repeats the same information to me, takes the Frapp, dumps it dramaticaly in the trash, and tells me he’s going to make a Light because “that’s what you ordered, miss.” I keep saying “I don’t mind, I don’t mind” and he says “You ordered a Light, miss, I’m going to give you a light.”Pure bitch. I grab my Frapp and by that time I’m late from break.

likes being challenged, hmm: Luckily I’m funny when I get back and use the Frapp as a gesturing prop. Cheerleader girls laugh and I think to myself, wow, being 27 has its benefits – cynicism has made me droll. Some of this funniness however, has a lot to do with my inability to control my obnoxious quips. I say to the teacher after class, “I feel like I’m being abrasive.” Aka the lesbo fiasco last week where I looked at her coolly and said “what’s wrong with that?” when she said a hetero girl putting a pic of herself kissing another girl on Facebook is unseemly, to which she responded “Hey, I’m a feminist!”

She says “you challenge me. I don’t mind being challenged.” Kind, kind woman.

No phone causes psychological distress: Monday night is bad because I think I’ve lost my phone at Mar’s birthday party. I had left bloke that morning with no plans to meet up even though we had made tentative plans to watch Anchorman and I get mad because there’s no attempt to book me, and that’s always a sign that things are going downhill. Things were all cute over the weekend when I was in my party personality – gold eyeshadow, whiskey, cig, and smacking people in the arm. Flitting about with random bouncy gestures seems to have the effect of making people think I am somebody, or something.

(Oh yeah Sunday after the party boy was in my hood for once. He got to sit in our music “studio” and roll out his beautiful musical imagery that is more evocative than any normal phrase; my roomie walked around with his brilliant capital “F” tattoo emblazoned on his chest and little boy shorts, listening while tying an amp onto the loftbed post, which I protested against, and both insisted it was ok. The two worlds of home and boy united, I felt giddily integrated as we went up to UWS where boy became very concerned about my inefficient way of getting ready.)

Anchorman, because he’s schooling me on American humor, the general project of unravelling me and putting me back together in a form I can hardly recognize. I’ve already shown him my British favorites: Alan Partridge and Spaced, but it’s not something movie nights are made of.

But no communication for two days, and by Wednesday I’m a wreck. Prep for my Art history exam, surprisingly, drives me batty. I thought I was over the whole wanting to succeed thing. (So Asian.) I had sat at a poorly lit rickety wooden table Monday night sucking in Marlboro UltraLights and straight vodka till the wee hours, spending 1.5 hours talking about late 80’s early 90’s pop music with my other DJ roomie who has encyclopedic knowledge of all sorts of music, esp cheese. Of course I had to hunt around for classic freestyle songs and Prince and create definitive playlists with Donatello and Bruneschelli glaring at me on the side with their thousand year old mathematical precision and celestial visions.

Index cards don’t work: The spectre of thousands of words integrated with glossy photographic images flanked by historical timelines is enough for me to maintain denial through the night that I’d have to finish the Renaissance. By Tuesday evening I was still getting down the details of how the hell Bruneschelli built the Florence Cathedral Dome (by building it on the drum and not the rotunda, or something), the largest dome ever made at the time. And promptly forgot everything no matter how many times I flipped through my index cards shamelessly on the subway. I had all the dates rolling off my tongue. The one thing I neglected to study was the Hagia Sophia which also happened to be one of the two questions on the exam.

Flashback to 6th form in England when I almost pass out from the dizzying action of taking my index cards out of my breastpocket and going back and forth till I knew nothing of who I was or where I was, thinking perhaps death was preferable, in fact a happy place. Remember why I was so scarred by trying to be a brilliant student – because I’m crap at studying. I really am just crap. When I studied for AP in high school, I stayed up all night to the chagrin and disgust of my mum (who surely had a structured way of learning un-poisoned by emotional investment), with a pen and three different colored highlighters, lining the book to shreds to try to understand every psychological, historical minutae of Western European History. My brain bursts into strained pus, and the only option is to clean-slate it and become complete insane.

A few years to recover, and my ginger re-introduction to thinking again, is usually preceded by reading a couple of bad, visceral books. I get convinced my habits and mind are clean enough so knowledge will seep through me like runny waters of gold, but no, now, instead of sugar, it’s cigs and coffee I’m cramming into me to blunt the force of self-doubt and muddled writhings of illogical shit.

I wanted to share this activity with you and you had to go eat ice cream. I party on the weekends, and do homework in the wee hours at the precise moment that I am officially doing it the wrong way – all to postpone fears of intellectual inadequacy, which is unbearable – it is preferable to deprive myself of sleep, snap at people, and think of suicide.

Because this pace is hard to keep up with, I try to have my tiny bit of chill, except it’s every night. I think in a moment of radical hope, that watching Anchorman with you is something I can fit in, I can do my NYT reading while watching that, sure, and beforehand too, I’ll be behind the stone kitchen counter smiling while you bread pork cutlets because that makes you feel connected to me, I need to connect with you, because I’m lost, my day is held together by desperate considerations of ideal behavior, guilt, guilt, regret.

And who am I to turn down a bottle of Oregon Pale Ale you had someone bring me off a plane? Must stand still and enjoy the complex bubbly hops while you look at my face to drink in the mixture of surprise and pleasure. I’m keeping it together and if that means putting aside Current Affairs and “what’s Fatah,” “How’s Iraq doing these days?” “Who’s Mitt Romney?” to ask you how you’re breading the pork cutlets and wherefore why so, so be it. A little hour here or there not glued to school, to afford me a kind, sympathetic smile, unfettered by political, distancing, ejecting interfaces,

melts me – I sink into a sofa and let myself go to coos, close-knit jibes and American humor video. Responses to my smiles. Everything’s ok.

“I’m surprised you don’t read the paper” Boy says. “People are really surprised when they find out I don’t know anything, because they think I’m smart.” This after I say, having just read the paper for my current affairs test tomorrow: “People are getting killed in Palestine right now – like – A LOT.”

“You are smart, that’s why I’m surprised you don’t read the paper.” “If I’m smart, it’s accidental, it’s hereditary. Meanwhile I do everything to not support it.” I don’t like concentrating, thinking, trying. This is further proven when we play music for each other, and I reach for Prince and Ace of Base, and he makes me listen to Autechre and Bjork, the more obscure albums, and I only like poppy Autechre and early Bkork. When we get to the track with the Eskimo warbling I want to hurl. I don’t like going outside my aural comfort zone.

I never want to get out of any comfort zone. I don’t like working out, I don’t like walking, I don’t like uncontrollable things. As a consequence I’m a complete control freak and completely dependent upon rituals and safety warnings.

Guess I won’t get to Wednesday in this blog post, or whatever. I have to study.

I knew it! HQ exists.

I’ve missed my journalism class for the past two days due to my head aching for real, not just the demons – my prof asked me for a doctor’s note otherwise I will – gasp, harsh, over – be penalized. I told the truth : I have no health insurance. So not posh.

I have no notes or excuses. I could break down her door crying, but that may not achieve the result I want. Flattery will get me nowhere. Neither will baked goods. I’ll just have to work hard, or something.

Bad grades or not, the class is forcing me to read NYT every day and I love it. I actually know what’s going on in the world, and it doesn’t hurt. For instance, crux: my social class is totally apparent (I thought I could hide it)

Your class, Payne says, determines everything: your eating habits, your speech patterns, your family relations. It is possible to move out of the class you were born into, either up or down, she says, but the transition almost always means a great disruption to your sense of self. And you can ascend the class ladder only if you are willing to sacrifice many of your relationships and most of your values — and only if you first devote yourself to careful study of the hidden rules of the class you hope to enter.

Nice. That means my sense of low self worth and metaphysical discomfort around the UWS Ivy Leaguers is real. Can I cross the threshold? Perhaps only by playing the clown.

Must get back to expanding my mind even though it won’t change the fact that I’m not a contender for HQ. I’m not doing to well in the expansion department either. No genteel poverty here. Frankly, this whole summer intensive thing is killing me. No sleep, paranoid delusions, too much coffee and frozen treats and ruined relationships all around. Sorry, world. I guess it’s a matter of Posh or Not.

Monday’s mulling over*: cheese, Chelsea and cereal come with the territory

First, cryptic exchange:

girl: “Sorry about…you know.”

bloke: “It comes with the territory.”

girl: “Of what?”

bloke: “Of dating.”

girl: “You mean this is normal?”

CHEESE: They put on a mini concert in Pierre’s backyard. It was too early but that earliness combined with the insecurity of partythrowers and the general scrambling into one’s empty hipster posers on the concrete ground in front of these glasses wearing button up shirt dudes focused as naturally behind the Casio as anything, as the shirts bound their bodies in repose, created a series of fizzles and pops as the rain stopped and started and I could see bloke wiping the keyboard with his checkered sleeve as he played a sweeping, too lush rendition of Talkie Walkie…I tried to acquire an umbrella from random bystander to cover it but God made the rain stop and made the hipsters stop spilling out onto the street to request a Doogie Howser song.

Gay boyfriend gave me massages, aghast at the “gristle”, I sat on Mar’s lap to protect myself from the empty hole that was the concrete spot that wasn’t being danced on. Her lap was surprisingly sit-on-able. We wore grey Uniqlo jeans and black tops, matching but not, and she didn’t want to dance except they played the first notes of the Beverly Hills Cop song and she jumped up as a matter of course. It was when the bright spots of Mar’s sister and her wide-eyed bf from Indiana strolled in, one in magenta, the other in emerald green, bumping in time with the end of a song that Mar shrieked with laughter and the party began to gell into the Casio and the Casio into it. By the time the Cupcake cafe cupcakes arrived everyone was involved.

Mar said “You missed the Ace of Base” to incomers, fully establishing the Casio’s existence and later on Kklov asked bloke why he didn’t record it on tape. It managed, by good intention and high class, to become an event of sorts, however short its inception and delivery dampened by drizzle. It hadn’t occurred to me to sound record since I was busy photographing. I hide behind photographing, that became sure at the party.

Mar was worried about a “corporate” coming that evening from Wall Street world. “This party is so hipster. I don’t know what to do! He’s going to get scared!” I was secretly proud, because both Casio boys were from uptown and had only been in Williamsburg once in their entire lives, strange speciies that smell of star lilies and fresh Ernest Sewn jeans. Their every move is sharp and dictated by something.

Post mini concert we threw around the pretty cupcakes, gay bf mashed one up against my BubbleYum jaws. The party happened before one could feel awkward. In some moment of vague unitedness between me and the boy up to the second floor, Mar came up to me on the rickety threshold separating the party and the real world, after looking inside the giftbag she’d cursorily opened pre-party just to say “Did you actually buy this bag?” and I “Yeah, it was 4.50$ can you believe it?” She couldn’t, or could, didn’t matter really. (Our poverty isn’t so much matching these days, but i can’t keep up). She rummaged in the bag and looked at me with big eyes “I didn’t look in here before but miso, this stuff is really expensive!” “A lot of it was on sale,” I offered. Bloke elbowed me and said “Don’t say that.” “Why not?” I had spent much time selecting the precise beauty product that would fit into her life – including contemplating the purchase of a fragrance combo called “Deeply Mysterious.” but I settled on something more practical, namely a bunch of random stuff. “Yeah, the story’s better,” Mar said.

Lots of people mingled like it was a proper backyard party and tequila and whiskey. iTunes experienced its heyday. Huge plates of cheese and raw food, the latter for the [famous hair company] people who wore tight highwater hot pants, bathing suit tops, and oversize sunglasses. Upon purveying this corporeal audacity, I felt triumphant that I could carry on gaudiness even though I have been so reviled for it for most of my life by black-grey-and-a-touch-of- neon aesthetes.

Anyway, they’ve lost a lot of weight doing it raw. Cigarettes bound all types of food-eaters together, a bloke taking it to a new level with tobacco in a pipe. Shernoff broke out his sunglasses and was the living embodiment of the movie Knocked Up. Me and Bloke went separate ways to understand ourselves in new social relations including talking to the opposite sex, ending up on one of Pierre’s strange mini sofa chairs in the bathroom line where I had to do something predictable like straddle and coo until another distraction came along. Mostly that distraction was some crazed spectacle or Mar’s emeralded sister bumping her shoulders up and down to music. Somebody got to say loudly “I farted!” Tall people got to accuse other tall people of “vibing” each other. I got to flex some iTunes prowess but mostly I lost my cellphone or rather someone stole it.

At the end on the stoop boy walked out to discover Sevedox freshly landed from a plane from India, with a sombrero on his head, holding a bottle of Sauza and a cellphone holder from Nepal for me, in which my cellphone should’ve ended up but didn’t.

You may have gotten the gist of it, but the party was for Mar’s birthday. She is a year closer to me and I am closer to nothing, except my meds, which will run out in a month and I don’t know what to do, because I have no health insurance now, as a full-time student. My mental health I care nothing for, but the sleeping I have issue with. I have no idea how I will sleep. I’ve been an insomniac for most of my life so it was a relief to discover there were things that I could take that would nonaddictively make sleep my friend. No longer did I have to conduct massive rituals to create the illusion of ease before my bed. No longer did I have to guarantee the absence of person next to me, sound, or bacteria.

Funnily enough my dreams have ceased to be about flying. They are now about boats, sex, space, all things that frighten the hell out of me.

CHELSEA, and a bunch of raw shit:  The week has been eventful. Chalk another one up for the Hating Miso club. Of course I am always paranoid about people hating me but when it actualizes it is more a curious event than one to be truly lamented, mostly because one doesn’t know what to do when faced with someone one fears constantly. I know I feel that way around fish. Part of the drama is due to the endemic wack particles of the situation, like timing, temprement, dress sense, body types, word choices, stances, principles, childhood baggage, tendency to cloak insult in offhand comments, tendency to read insult in offhand comments, the emotional insufficiencies of either party – and a lot of it my own isues – but the relative normalcy of the other things in my life lessen the dramatic impact of the hatred directed towards me.

On lying as HQ: Stephen Glass in Class

In the cafeteria, eating my frozen treat. I have a herculean art History book to read. It’s unopened, too big really. Somebody should’ve thought of that before they made it so…

Yesterday: “What are the dates of the Pyramids of Giza? Menkaure? Khafra?” repeated over and over. flash cards out the window. Wine did nothing. I’d be told the dates of Khafra and asked it again one second after, and I’d forget it, because I have fog in my brain, like I have now, which can only understand frozen treats, can’t see index cards although I do remember the cherry red lips uttering the dates of Khafra, Kufu, the Temple of Hatshepsut, over and over again, grilling me – then we watched Hell’s Kitchen (the Gordon Ramsey reality show) and that was good.

Last night: I twisted in bed in many configurations, even with 1.5 glasses of wine down (they don’t like me to drink it ‘cus I get red in the face, but God, my thoughts…) but “inspired” I said but really wired, by spending time with overachievers. The Korean in me connects with that, the displaced in me kicks myself multiply throughout connection, for not being like them. I want to wear a Johns Hopkins shirt. I want to have a Juilliard messenger bag. What I will have is lavendar hair, because of gay boyfriends. I will have soap operas because of fucked up friendships, multiplied by fucked up self and fucked up town. I will have a funny family that kills me, and not the loving mother and father that provides too still of a launching pad.

I love dinner parties.

Hipsters Being Dead is Dead to Me

The past 24 hours have been rough on us. By us, I mean hipsters. Embrace it. Skinny pants are over.

Feministing disses on the white hipsters for trying out ghetto fab. ‘Cus that’s a privilege.

AND

Time Out’s Hipster Must Die article that broke the mouths of hipster hell. (quote attrib Mar) I haven’t read it yet although people are screaming in my ear about it. I say, “Am I going to be so furious I won’t be able to sleep or do anything?” They say: “Maybe you’re not ready.” I brace myself, set aside a few Buds, rest up my feet, antioxidant tea for later, ciggs.

Houseboy promises massages: “Did you read the article yet?” shake head. “Not going to read it?” Silence. “Don’t you think you should read it?”

Five hours later, be still my apathetic heart, comment wars consumed between my ironic chops, I’ll be a Yipster when I’m done. Or worse, corporate.

Somebody take me back to a New Jersey mallstrip. I’m outie.

A Hard to Resist Invitation

…after you’re so over. (Listen to this week’s shortbus incredibly synthy, disco set and be hopeful)

So I get into work remarkably well rested and feeling good for the 1st time this week – I’m gungho, don’t even need a caffeine pill but take one anyway just for the hell of it. I’d woken up to Alana helping me with my outfit and its possible matching bikini tops and stirring her oatmeal -a girly sort of morning.

Yes, I have plans, I am dressed up for a reason, any reason would do,but this time being a hard to resist invitation:

People of vast and exanding intelligence,

It feels to me as if I have not seen a core contingent of such lovable
characters as yourselves for some time now. Why not bust this bitch
ass slump by eating booze and food. Tomorrow I am actually preparing
to die because I am 26 years old, which is a really silly age to be.
Forget death actually; let us be convivial and cheers me to another
year of purely coasting on fading charm. To augment intimacy and
decrease funding I nominate the beautiful ** to host the
dinner at her house. I know this is last minute but it is also low
key so make it if you can and fucking die if you can’t.

Nobility, a mindset.

Rude awakenings

The XXX has taken it upon himself to text me at 10am with I would love to buyu a cafe. Upon my “Why,”He answered No reason, I just thought it would b nice. i have always thought u r talented woman but was never ur friend 2 support u. The funniest thing I heard in ages.Last night, talking to thetherapist about my childhood (upon her request, I’d rather bitch about current events) – she asked, after I described a few incidents, “Why are you laughing? It’s not funny.”When you look at things in the past they just seem pathetic, funny, maneagable. And she said “I’m angry for you. I’m feeling what you should be feeling but you’r’e not, for some reason. You should be feeling something.” She’s going to help me feel what she’s feeling.

I am feeling the buzz of guarana, which is something. I also have a new project to work on! A. Foundation’s “Speak out against Domestic Violence” grant…due on August 1st, Tuesday. That’s how I like to do – last minute! Chaos! Back to the DV, in all forms

Research is for Pussies

I’ve always wanted to be a slice of data, a dataset, a sliver of silver.  I’ve been lucky enough to be in the position to do research this past week or so, scouring for anything to prove that ENY immigrant kids are f**d.  There’s a lot of anecdotal stuff but not a lot of hard facts. I need stuff like: White people x times more likely to commit suicide and definitely binge drink more than Hispanics. But nothing on the side of the immigrants except for those fiery Koreans boy, you better watch out for them…

What’s hard about going through the ACS, Dept of Mental Health, for delightful pictures of the misery of New York-kind, is that I’m confronted with myself as said immigrant, as bitch, ho, troubled one, abused, etc. Everyone’s a statistic in a sense; but it’s brutal to have to research yourself as the subject of govt sponsored study. Like, the govt knows their shit, & shit – how important mental health is to saving tax dollars, etc. The ACS website looks the shit, the DYFS website looks the shit – nyc.gov/health makes pretty health profiles for communities that tell you exactly how many people in a certain zipcode want to off themselves.  The solutions are to eat right and look people in the damn eye.  The solutions are to smile more often and get thee a boyfriend or a girlfriend to watch t.v. with and get fat with.  They did not do anything for me, these places.  These places get so much money – Safe Horizon, for instance.  The one time I called them I got a jacked, impatient sounding girl who told me to call back later after I called the police.  Now that’s not nice. That’s simply not professional.

So forgive me if i’m a little cynical as to the efficacy of these organizations that may be just a cover for the govt really fucking up, or people fucking up, or whatever it is in the water that’s fucking us up.  As statistics show there are gazillions of people – or rather,

6% of New Yorkers who report having clinically significant emotional distress.  Persons with this distress often experience depressiion….blah blah…substantially interfere with a major life activity, such as eating, maintaining a household, working, or developing and maintaining personal relationships.  A person who is very depressed or anxious may be more likely than others to engage in behaviors that contribute to poor health, such as smoking, getting no exercise and eating a poor diet.

These telephone surveys are jacked though.  Who do you know that’s ever done a telephone survey? I conducted one once with the people in South Dakota or something for a MoveOn initiative involving persuading people to vote for Kerry, but that was pretty ridiculous.  What I got out of that was learning how to make mojitos.  (It was a mojito calling-people-to-vote-for-Kerry party).  Anyway the point is, if the aforementioned counts as depression pretty much everyone is depressed, innit. Except for my dad who pops chlorophyll pills and has never damaged his body more than his eyeballs looking at unpretty things. That is one not-depressed person!

states of research: I haven’t slept much for a week – 3 hours last night – and doing copious amounts of research which will probably come to naught since I have very little influence in my place of work, research on issues in which i already have very intimate knowledge of – or should i say anecdotal – which I wouldn’t be able to use here in these 300,000$ proposals, no it simply wouldn’t do – furthermore i haven’t seen my therapist in 2 weeks.  I’ll see her today thank god, but first i have to go to a Staff/karoake/dinner meeting in which we will get down with the chicken drumsticks.  How hilariously fun, bonding, lovely.

The harddrive was for naught, and so was my work, all in a day’s love: So the New Orleans video for the church I went down with, did not even take place yesterday as planned.  I was happy enough to receive the tall pastor’s assistant’s apologies, and the very typically beautiful Chris picking me up and hugging me so I got to be lifted off the floor for a few minutes. I arrived late, sweaty, shaky from a caffeine pill, panicky from hunched over a computer working with fraction second increments of video. Everyone was already there – John, who looked somehow radiant, if a guy could be – sat there with an inexplicable role of plaid wrapping paper in a CVS bag, and Ian and Mary sat looking fashionable and bored out of their minds (but supportive). JL came right behind me, distastefully beholding the Jesus aspect and the fact that I kept spilling stuff on my inappropriate striped Rainbow tank dress. He in contrast was smooth in his Brooks Brother’s shirt, plucky and shaved.

B&H, blackberries & beyond the coin toss

B&H:  I hand out with this bloke, let’s call him SC – tall, skinny, pinstriped suit guy of a million transactions and titles at the corner of B&H (I first met him at Zach’s party on Saturday where he tried to guess my profession and came up with Lawyer. Genius).

He looked relatively calm and normal, ala Marvin Gaye shirt. He takes me to the video section and talks a mile a minute about all these technicalities that I don’t know about immediately deflecting the snotty B&H people who talk abruptly and don’t bother to hide their eyes, bantered cruelly with them about the relative goodness of this or that tripod. “I wouldn’t get that one,” deigned a cute Hasid looking like he was coming out of a Nirvana shell – what was his name? Marni – lisped “I’m in Williamsburg too.”

So I come away with 100+ dollars worth of stuff which SC has spotted me because I don’t have enough on my credit card: in 15 minutes I know more than I did before I stepped into B&H, namely that I needed a better tripod, a windscreen and how to twirl and expensive camera.

I’m pretty damn happy because frankly I had a sore throat, a headache, and very little sleep all week and the idea of learning something was frightening.   He gives me two fat books on digital filmmaking and I think I’m in heaven.